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The Wholehearted Parenting Manifesto, By Brené Brown

Above all else, I want you to know that you are loved and lovable. You will learn this from my words and actions—the lessons on love are in how I treat you and how I treat myself.

I want you to engage with the world from a place of worthiness. You will learn that you are worthy of love, belonging, and joy every time you see me practice self-compassion and embrace my own imperfections.

We will practice courage in our family by showing up, letting ourselves be seen, and honouring vulnerability. We will share our stories of struggle and strength. There will always be room in our home for both.

We will teach you compassion by practising compassion with ourselves first; then with each other. We will set and respect boundaries; we will honour hard work, hope, and perseverance. Rest and play will be family values, as well as family practices.

You will learn accountability and respect by watching me make mistakes and make amends, and by watching how I ask for what I need and talk about how I feel.

I want you to know joy, so together we will practice gratitude.

I want you to feel joy, so together we will learn how to be vulnerable.

When uncertainty and scarcity visit, you will be able to draw from the spirit that is a part of our everyday life.

Together we will cry and face fear and grief. I will want to take away your pain, but instead I will sit with you and teach you how to feel it.

We will laugh and sing and dance and create. We will always have permission to be ourselves with each other. No matter what, you will always belong here.

As you begin your Wholehearted journey, the greatest gift that I can give to you is to live and love with my whole heart and to dare greatly.

I will not teach or love or show you anything perfectly, but I will let you see me, and I will always hold sacred the gift of seeing you. Truly, deeply, seeing you.

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To My Fellow Toastmaster

My Fellow Toastmasters,

It has been a year since I stood at a club meeting to thank you for placing your trust in me to lead this club. Now the time has come for me, on behalf of the 2018-2019 club leadership, to thank you for your support and congratulate you on what you have achieved in your Toastmasters journey. The experience and skills you have gained and learned will enrich your life.

Your initiative, action, and hard work inspired our officer team to do our best to deliver professionally-organized quality club meetings and the best possible member experience. It was gratifying to see our members grow and our membership continue to increase throughout the year. Together we have transformed a fun club into a fun and quality club (as reflected partly by earning the President’s Distinguished Club recognition), where members are motivated to learn and develop public speaking and leadership skills in a fun and positive environment. The club is more dynamic, diverse and inclusive than before. This past Tuesday we passed the leadership torch to our 2019-2020 club officer team, a strong and dynamic team that is ready to lead the club to an even brighter future.

It has been an honor for me to work with you and an amazing team. Thank you for allowing me to be a part of your Toastmasters journey. I wish you all the best for a wonderful new Toastmasters year.

Sincerely,

Zhengwei 

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A Mysterious Voyager?

On October 19, 2017, the Pan-STARRS telescope spotted a mysterious voyager (from the interstellar space) that was sailing through our Solar System like a shark cruising through a vast ocean at incredible speed. I was ecstatic upon hearing this exciting discovery. I said to myself: “I’ve got to share this exciting news with my friends.” But my enthusiasm was dampened when I realized I couldn’t pronounce the name of this damned thing: ‘Oumuamua. It turned out this name is Hawaiian, meaning “a messenger from afar arriving first.”  Here is your guide to its pronunciation I got from my friend, Dr. Funky Genius: Imagine you are super creative – calling a cow “mooer.” And you are writing a poem about this lovely cow, and there you have it: ‘Oh mooer mooer.’

‘Oumuamua is the first known voyager from another star to visit our solar system. Astronomers have been debating what the heck this voyager actually is. Is it an asteroid – a small rocky body, or a comet that we may call a dirty snowball? A new study by astrophysicists Shmuel Bialy and Abraham Loeb has raised an intriguing question or speculation: Could ‘Oumuamua be actually an alien spaceship?  Here are the three unusual things about Oumuamua.

  1. ‘Oumuamua has a weird shape. It’s highly elongated and narrow, about 400 meters (or a quarter of a mile) long, but perhaps as little as 40 meters wide. Its shape is like a shark body, which is unlike any known asteroids and comets in our solar system – they are typically round or semi-round. A shark-like architecture is well suited to interstellar travel because this would minimize friction and damage from interstellar gas and dust, just like the fastest shark with a streamlined body and shape that minimizes drag from the water as it cruises through the water).
  1. ‘Oumuamua has a bizarre trajectory. Planets, asteroids, and comets in the solar system orbit the Sun in ellipses or elongated circles, as predicted by Newton’s law of gravity. Earth goes around the Sun in an elliptical orbit once every year. (People often say living on Earth nowadays is expensive. But keep in mind each year you get a free round trip around the Sun (in a fancy oval-shaped orbit). ‘Oumuamua’s trajectory is completely different and appears highly hyperbolic. It was moving too fast to be gravitationally captured by the Sun. In other words, Oumuamua was passing through our solar system but not orbiting the Sun.
  1. ‘Oumuamua was accelerating as it was moving away from the Sun, which can’t be explained by Newton’s law of gravity. More, the voyager was also tumbling on its way out, like performing spectacular somersaults in deep space. This odd behavior, along with its weird shape and trajectory, led to an exotic scenario: Oumuamua could be a fully operational spaceship sent out by an alien civilization.

In conclusion: A homeless guy asks his friend, “What do you think the odds are that I will become a billionaire?” Friend answers: “Maybe a trillion to one.” The guy responds: “So you’re saying there’s a chance!” 

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